Anneke
-
Content
698 -
Joined
-
Last Online
.thumb.jpg.98b906d25b0fd25686f5334c0e578962.jpg)
.thumb.gif.5c49e0011372d36280bc9b5b564cb2c1.gif)
Recent Profile Visitors
Anneke's Achievements
Single Status Update
-
So I’m feeling kinda depressed my relationship is having troubles again and I’m feeling pretty tired and I’m scared of going into another rupture like the last time... I deserve respect and my partner sometimes treats me like shit and he says it’s his way to be, I don’t think being called a “stupid bitch” “ a fucking idiot” it’s normal tbh, justifying that is his way of talking... I don’t think it’s okay...
-
-
1
-
2
-
- Report
- Show previous comments 1 more
-
SpoilerIf you're picking up signs that are not okay to you, or think that you should be treated different than what you want or should, you're right love. Your intuition is letting you know something is not right and I would bring it up about it to them. You're the only one who knows them personally in a relationship and communication can really help you both unless they don't want to. If they're not willing to stop or change the behavior that's hurting you, or take your feelings into consideration, then sometimes that's enough to let you know that person isn't right for you. It's nice to love certain traits about a person, but sometimes that can blind you from the bad as well. I would weigh them out and see if it's worth fixing. (Hidden in a spoiler, I didn't want it just out in the open. I just know the feeling of loving someone recently and then sitting and realizing if I actually wanted him as a partner, around my kids, etc and he had a lot of anger and trust issues that resembled my mom. It's what made it easier for me to let go and move on because I didn't want that kind of poison back in my life again.)
-
-
1
-
.png)
1
-
- Report
-
You couldn’t say it any better “not a change because it’s forced, because it’s the right thing to do” I totally get it, I know I’m not wrong and what I ask should be the normal thing to do, I’m disappointed in how this person can’t see that is a bad thing.
We’ve been talking about it these days and somehow got a solution for the problem, the only conclusion I got is that if some of his bullsh*t stays the same well it’s time to go away, no more chances, no more offenses... that’s it I hope we can get through this in the healthiest way.Reading you I know we have a similar mindset about it, really thank you for taking your time and writing everything!
Thanks for thinking that about me!!
-
-
1
-
- Report
-
I know these kind of things can be considerate as red flags and knowing that someone else thinks similar to me makes me feel I’m not exaggerating or being crazy about it.
If something is making me feel uneasy I will always discuss about it but if my person is not willing to change, sadly I think it’s time to say goodbye, I’m only waiting for it to happen again, cause if you do a promise and if you break it at the first opportunity you have... well it wasn’t as serious as you said.
Thanks for sharing part of your experience and what you think about it with me, I’m glad you’re out of it now!! So proud of you
-
-
1
-
- Report
.png)
