Anneke

Ikr! Now it's back to normal yay! @Grit

Yeah, same! Weird how that happened to all apple users. Must've been an update or beta tester thing.

Yes I think so! And I thought I was hacked or something, I was freaking out for nothing lol @Grit

this is beyond adorable, i agree u should make an adopt series

@Cheerbear @vhssu 

great idea! I didn’t think of it before but it could work, thank you! :D

This dp is so cute  

@hholke thanks dear! she will be ready soon~

Super cute! How much will she be? 

@Skao probably $22 USD dear 

that price is definitely worth it  you've been very amazing with my commissions, it's definitely worth every penny. If you want to try a new style though, I support that too and I'd love to get a commish in that style in the future 

You are all amazing, thanks for the support!! :') ♥

Its a reasonable price!

A bit more shading/shine to the hair will probably do the trick too!

Maybe accessories toward the hair or face region may help, too? Ex: hat, piercings, tattoos, etc.

just some ideas!

Tysm! I knew there was something weird with her hand ;;

@Paige 

thank you so much for the advice! You don’t know how much you have helped to clarify my thoughts. I know that’s this would be for the best, he might not see it that way but I know it is! I’ll let him go... thank you dear Paige!

@Opertum 

It’s hard for me to say it out loud but you’re so damn right, thanks for talking from your experience, this is what I needed to comprehend and even to realize even more where this “relationship” is leading... I can say he’s mature for his age but not enough as me and we tend to fight sometimes, I mean it happens in every relationship, he’s 17 and he’s turning 18 in a couple of months, which makes a couple of years of differenc from mine , I’ve been thinking about it and not gonna lie, this hit me “I’m not going to say age gap is a huge deal but you may find yourself in a couple of years experiencing more to life then that person which makes it hard to relate” 

its kinda hard because he knows about this and he asked me for a chance saying he doesn’t mind getting hurt in the end... which makes me a egoistic girl from my point of view.

thank you so so much! I’ll do the adult thing, it’s for the best, I know from the very deep that our destiny is to fail as a couple, specially because of the long distance thing...

You're welcome! Yeah, I mean men are usually more immature (sorry dudes who read this) and they do develop slower than females on the maturity scale (proven by science but it also depends on what hardships they have to go through or how they were raised as well).  Fighting is normal in a relationship, it's perfectly okay and healthy to fight as long as it remains respectful and level headed, so no going for low blows or insecurities in your partner to actually hurt them (that's immature and causes unnecessary damage). There really is no point giving him a chance if it's going to fail, but if you think it's going to fail and have that mindset then it already failed before you guys even started.

It would be different if he was in his early to mid 20s, he would have more of a chance to experience adulthood and also able to gain more of a life perspective. If he was older I would say give it a shot even if it is long distance, but now that I know his age, it's not a smart idea. I do support you guys being friends at least, maybe down the line when he gets older then there could be potential to pursue something while dating other people currently, it gives both of you guys a break from each other but still remain good friends. 

I want to say it's common to meet like-minded individuals, but I would have to disagree, it's pretty hard now to meet someone that really understands you, or at least tries to understand you. If he does mean a lot to you, I definitely think you should cherish that friendship.

There's perks to a long distance relationship that a real-life relationship doesn't have so I wouldn't rule out the long distance altogether. You know yourself more then I do, so if long distance doesn't work then that's okay, enjoy dating in real life (Coffee & tea dates are my favorite).

I'm wishing you the best outcome if you ever need to talk my dm is always open!

Xoxoxo,

Dani

Ofc! I wish you the best! Speaking from someone the exact same age as him I totally get his end but, understand how its affecting you. He'll be okay and so will you. Personally I don't think anyone my age is truly committed to anything quite yet and we have a lot to figure out and would make a relationship hard. Overall I think you're making the right choice and I support you. You've got this. Keep living your best life and make good choices! Like she said too- if you ever need someone to talk to my dm is open as well. Xoxo 

omg of course luv bug <33  

I’m here for you if you need support! Maybe you could try some vent art? I know that helps some! Hugs<3

I'm going though one my self so I understand your pain I'm here if you need to vent even if you want me to reply I'm sorry this happened also I agree with exed vent art could help 

@Gogi @Baah

Tysm~ I feel a lot better now! 

Happy to hear!! 

@Pup Yes I know! but I lso know that people tend to order for smaller canvas due to the format that IMVU uses (not everyone tho) and of course prices have a lot to do with it, because again people is used to pay less for smaller formats. 

I get super frustrated with this. Cause I see some dps on here that sell for the price of a super big art on other sites. Thats not to throw shade or anything, but sometimes I'm just like hmmmmmm. I'm glad people can sell their creations they put hard work into, whatever size it may be. I prefer to buy and draw large art personally that way I can actually print it out and hang it in my house. Or use it as a desktop wallpaper :>

A good way to branch out of the smaller size canvas is to draw at a larger size, then provide crops for those who want them. It may not be at the point where you'll be 100% free of the smaller sizes, but it's a good way to help phase out of it. You'll notice that while there's still quite a few artists who offer DP sizes only, there are an increasing amount of those trying larger canvas sizes. Prints are also something that are becoming more prevalent. 

hmm I'd personally go with the first one but with another hair color. <:

Both are absolutely adorable. If you wanted you could do more  of a goth and light version and sell it with both versions

You're all right! thank you ♥

@Niloufar

You couldn’t say it any better “not a change because it’s forced, because it’s the right thing to do” I totally get it, I know I’m not wrong and what I ask should be the normal thing to do, I’m disappointed in how this person can’t see that is a bad thing. 

We’ve been talking about it these days and somehow got a solution for the problem, the only conclusion I got is that if some of his bullsh*t stays the same well it’s time to go away, no more chances, no more offenses... that’s it I hope we can get through this in the healthiest way.

Reading you I know we have a similar mindset about it, really thank you for taking your time and writing everything! Thanks for thinking that about me!!

@ChocolateTentacles

I know these kind of things can be considerate as red flags and knowing that someone else thinks similar to me makes me feel I’m not exaggerating or being crazy about it.

If something is making me feel uneasy I will always discuss about it but if my person is not willing to change, sadly I think it’s time to say goodbye, I’m only waiting for it to happen again, cause if you do a promise and if you break it at the first opportunity you have... well it wasn’t as serious as you said.

Thanks for sharing part of your experience and what you think about it with me, I’m glad you’re out of it now!! So proud of you  

double click the image and paste the url in the box thingy!!

this little part

OHH! New forum has changed a lot, thank you so so much! ♥

it's ok, love! took me awhile to get used to it too 

you're welcome!! 

yess omg especially his voice in the song 4 o’clock ; - ; beautiful !

Ikr! Tho it makes me feel sad 

yeah same ; - ; like Stigma !! 

this is very pretty !!

@Amore tysm hun!

woah  

Don't let anything put you down! Yes those things can suck, but something better is reserved for you 

Head up and smile, also that premade is super cute!

I actually like the pastel colors.  

Aahh, she's so cute~

Shes cute 

I'm sorry you had to go through that, but yes the right choice is to let go because it will only continue or even become worse than ever. Much love! 

You've done the right thing. It's hard and troublesome. And I'm sorry you had to go through this. But it makes you stronger! 

You've dealed with this situation very well and you should be proud of yourself! 

Glad to hear you feel better now!

@Parasites @Hope

Omg thank you guys! You don't even know me and you're being so nice to me T_T

thanks for your support ♥

Please do, shes adorable. Would totally claim.

so cute! please doo 

so cute!!! please do coms in this style 

Happy birthday! Hope you still manage to have a good day, regardless of covid-19. 

@Qualyis @Hiroki

Thank you guys! ♥

@Anneke im sorry to hear that 

I’m so sorry bb 

It’s okay u-u he’s in a better place now

I'm sorry to hear that Anneke, hope that you Will be able to concentrate soon

@DrexiyThank you cutieee :')

@Anneke Yw hun 

10/10 here hun your service is very good and you are always such a sweetie 

@ Drexiy  sometimes I feel like I'm very distracted and I don't respond well to messages haha.

Thank you for your feedback dear!! <33

@ Anneke  it happens to all of us sometimes, dont be so hard on yourself sweetie.

And you're very welcome!!<33 

Uh oh 

Sounds like you're having a rough time,

hope it gets better~

soooo cute! you've improved so much wow 

ahhh shes so cute! i love her face markings!

lmao I just noticed her hands xDD woops

I love it

damn thats so cute, i wan it nowwwww ; - ; 

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